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Workshops
- And the Cradle Will Fall: Dark Age Play (Keri Leigh)
- BDSM Ego, Entitlement, and Expectations (Dr. Evil)
- Best Kink Advice Nobody Told You (Midori)
- Beyond Bowed Heads: Rituals for D/s (Lee Harrington)
- Binding the Bodacious and those with Limited Range of Motion: Understanding the "Why" of Rope Bondage (Michael Sol (sponsored by Kinky Medical))
- Bondage for Aggressive Exchange and Rough Sex (Two Knotty Boys)
- Bondage for the Masculine Form and Bits 1: Floor work (Michael Sol (sponsored by Kinky Medical))
- Bootblacking and Leathercare (101) (Nick Elliott)
- Breathless: Sealing the Breath, Carotid Occlusions, and Traumatic Asphyxiation (Master Konraad and slave Jazz)
- Cogito Ergo Thud - The Art of Impact Play (T)
- Creation in Flesh and Blood: Intro to Artistic Cutting (Michael Sol (sponsored by Kinky Medical))
- D/S Tantra: The Tao of Power Exchange (Barbara Carrellas)
- Dominance Bondage (Two Knotty Boys)
- Erotic Breathwork (Barbara Carrellas)
- Esoteric Caning (Master Konraad and slave Jazz)
- Experiencing Electro Stim (Rupert Huse)
- Exploring Whips for Dynamic Scene Creation (Tim Kelly, Guy, Annamarie)
- Fisting For Perverts (Fisting 601) (Felice Shays)
- Flogging PantherStyle - Another Look at Flogging (PantherProwLs)
- FTM CBT: Genital Torment for Queer Bodies (Lee Harrington)
- Getting Wet: G-Spot and Ejaculation (Felice Shays)
- Getting What You Want in your BDSM Relationship(s) (Jim Duvall, Sophia Sky)
- Hard Points for Bondage (Nick Karaffa)
- How to Play with Fire without getting Burned (Julie Morris)
- Humiliation Play: When Being Down in the Gutter Makes You Feel on Top of the World (Keri Leigh)
- Interrogation I (Master Trooper Frank, slave paul, slave willie)
- Interrogation II (Master Trooper Frank, slave paul, slave willie)
- Kinesthetic Polyamoury with Jim Duvall & Sophia Sky (Sophia Sky, Jim Duvall)
- KinkFest Dungeon Etiquette or It's my first time what the hell? (Dungeon Master Mark, Marlene)
- Latex 101 (Tonya Winter)
- Mummification and Encasement (Tonya Winter)
- NCSF - The Alleged Domestic Violence Class (Robyn Friedman)
- Omotenashi - Predictive/Anticipatory Service for People Who Can't Read Minds (T)
- Pain Processing and Catharsis (Keri Leigh)
- Palpation for Rope Play with Sophia Sky (Sophia Sky)
- Pony Play - From the Stable to the Barnyard (Jake Markow)
- Predicament Bondage (Midori)
- Pumping 101 with Pumpmaker (Matt - Pumpmaker)
- Relating to Rope (Jim Duvall)
- Rough Sex (Russell Harmon)
- Sensual Body Drumming (cindi, Stormy)
- Sir! Yes Sir! : Exploring, Developing, Implementing and Enforcing Protocol (Lee Harrington)
- Some Kinks Are Not Okay! Morning Stretch with The Wee Pixie (The Wee Pixie)
- Sounding for All (Annamarie)
- Temporary Branding w/Violet Wand (Dr. Clockwork)
- Temporary Piercing 201 - Beyond the Basics (Robyn Friedman)
- The Art of the Climb: Size Does Matter (Joe and Gabi)
- The Doctor is IN (Dr. Evil)
- The Ultimate Guide to Being a Lazy Top (FifthAngel)
- The Warrior/slave Paradigm (Master Konraad and slave Jazz)
- Violet Wand Basics and Beyond (Dr. Clockwork)
- With Deadly Intent (FifthAngel)
- Wrestling for Fun (Russell Harmon)
And the Cradle Will Fall: Dark Age Play
Are you curious about the darker side of age play? Does the thought of Daddy having his way with his little girl, whispering, "this is just our little secret" excite you? Are you a Mommy who really wants to bring tears to her little's eyes in between all of the coloring and trips to the zoo? Do you often fantasize about what it would be like to have the babysitter molest you in all kinds of hot and delicious ways, coaxing you with that lollipop and promises of having a later bedtime? Dark Age play can cause fear, guilt, or hesitation when we think about indulging in these fantasies and yet, for many of us, it is a form of play that has the potential to give us so much joy, pleasure and yes, even catharsis. In this class, topics will include types of dark age play, how to find appropriate partners, ethics, precare and aftercare, and how to make that transition to the deeper (and darker!) end of the pool.
WARNING: There will be demonstrations in this class that may be triggering to some.
BDSM Ego, Entitlement, and Expectations
The legend: A mixed group of gay war veterans just back from fighting in World War II created a secret society full of tradition and protocols that became the honored basis of our mutual leather lifestyles. The original members of the Old Guard have passed, yet these codes of behavior- the simple ‘hankie codes’ to the status of ‘earning your leathers’ have survived and morphed into how we present ourselves in our community today. The class: Come review our past together and discuss how we have reached our own sense of entitlement in the 21st Century. Recognize our growth, and learn how to integrate traditional protocols and while creating new ones for your public and private life. >From the simple collar to the mysterious hand signals, there’s a level of respect and titillation that results from giving props to our past and creating our futures in the Leather community. This class on protocols is for beginners to advanced players.
Best Kink Advice Nobody Told You
Ever feel boxed in by the definition and expectations of kinky sex? Do you want more fulfilling play? Would you like a more effective way to find out what the other person really wants and minimize scene failure? Want to better answer the question of "what are you into?" and have better play times? Find your self dissatisfied with scenes or frustrated at not having your desire accepted? Want to figure out how to create a multi person scene where everyone is happy? You're not alone! Ever notice the expectation that a sadist must be a dominant and a submissive must be a masochist? Or vice a versa... Is this right? Wrong!
Join Midori in this this hugely popular and unique class where she explodes the standard definitions of kink roles and expands the idea of what kink is all about. In "Best Kink Advice," she maps out a fine-tuned and flexible framework that anyone can use to help better describe their adventurous appetites. The first step to fulfilling your desire is to better understand them and effectively and appealingly sharing that with others. This is a class for those who want better play, or those don't quite fit into the standard boxes... and for anyone who's curious about their own possibly untapped potential!
Beyond Bowed Heads: Rituals for D/s
Rituals are a key part of any D/s relationship, whether we acknowledge them or not. From casual kisses as the door to formal slave poses, ritual objects such as collars to slave contracts, the BDSM world is rife with concepts of ritual- but what is a ritual? What are the levels of ritualistic interaction we have between one another? Let’s look at rituals for day to day life (including how to get out of work or parent space), sacred time, intense connection, erotic play, solidifying relationships, changes within our relationships, and the taboo subject of the devastating loss of a relationship or its natural end. From terminology to developing your own code of ethical interaction, this class covers a bevy of styles and types of interpersonal reactions.
Binding the Bodacious and those with Limited Range of Motion: Understanding the "Why" of Rope Bondage
Michael Sol (sponsored by Kinky Medical)
This class focuses on the importance of understanding the construction of a tie rather than simply memorize a pattern to best bind any form. Whether you need to modify a tie or simply understand it, this is a valuable class.
Many Japanese forms are beautiful but not forgiving of different body types and conditions. This class will discuss intelligent adaptations and approaches for human beings, and feature a modification to achieve a Gote in its look, form and function. We will also discuss other forms as time allows.
Please do tie along if you like. Seven meter or 30 foot length ropes of hemp or jute are preferred for this class though modification for other types of rope will be provided on request.
Bondage for Aggressive Exchange and Rough Sex
Students would learn a variety of physical control techniques, based on wrestling and martial arts, for safely and quickly immobilizing submissives and quickly tying them. In this hands-on workshop, Dan and JD will also show techniques for rough sex, including simple moves and positions that almost anyone can use to help gain a sexual advantage, even when outweighed by a partner. Students will learn how to use rope, household items and even each others' clothing as tools for creative, adventurous, memorable sex.
This class offers plenty of supervised practice, peppered with lots of lighthearted humor. Couples recommended. Bring two 10-foot lengths and two 20- to 30-foot (preferably solid braid 3/8" diameter or thicker; however, hemp rope will also do).
Bondage for the Masculine Form and Bits 1: Floor work
Michael Sol (sponsored by Kinky Medical)
Bondage on the male form has different accouterments to attach to and stimulate, and the biodynamic of the body changes with gender and asks different solutions in rope bondage. Here we will examine the practical aspects of binding the male form as well as explore some fun things to do once the rope is in place. The first class in this series will cover floor ties for upper and lower body.
Feel free to tie along. Seven meter or 30 foot ropes of hemp or jute are preferred for this class though modification for other types of rope will be provided on request.
Bootblacking and Leathercare (101)
This will be a hands-on class for those who want to learn how to look after their leather, or know how and just want to hang out while taking care of their leather. We will all clean, condition, polish and buff our leathers together. Bring an item or two of leather you want to spruce up - be it boots, vests, chaps, corsets, caps, harnesses etc. Questions are encouraged throughout.
Breathless: Sealing the Breath, Carotid Occlusions, and Traumatic Asphyxiation
Considered "edgy" by most within the SM community and hailed as "dangerous" by a vocal group of fear mongers, carotid occlusion and related forms of choking and strangulation are actually safely practiced every day by millions of people worldwide within the sports of Judo, Brazilian Jiujitsu, Combat Grappling, and Mixed Martial Arts.
This workshop will focus upon traditional "breath play" modalities (often referred to as shimewaza in Judo and traditional Jiujitsu), and their potential use within an SM context. Subject matter will include the history of shimewaza, the physiological mechanisms whereby a strangle or choke is accomplished, the deepening stages of a carotid strangle, pressure point/kyusho jitsu in breath play, safety in application and revival techniques ("kappo/kuatsu"), techniques for application of bare-handed and scarf/rope style chokes and strangles, techniques which favor smaller tops, and aftercare. We will also discuss the legality of teaching and performing these techniques. Participants will leave class with real skill in carotid occlusion "breath play" and will have the chance to experience breath play themselves.
Konraad has taught shimewaza/choking techniques to hundreds of students in the martial arts, used them successfully to win state, regional and national martial arts tournaments, and has taught them as part of continuing education programs inacademy-approved classes to police and other law enforcement personnel. As a State's prosecutor and as a private attorney in the criminal defense and police officer internal defense fields, he has handled cases dealing with so-called "rough sex" and domestic violence-related choking, as well as alleged auto-erotic asphyxiation, and police and private citizen application of choke holds in high stress situations. His slave, Jazz, has no such dazzling qualifications; she just likes to be strangled. After 12 years as a top and bottom in this genre of play, however, she is quite the aficionado.
Cogito Ergo Thud - The Art of Impact Play
"I know how to hit!?" - that's what you're probably thinking. Yet there are simple techniques you can learn that would enable you to do so much more. This hands-on workshop introduces practical ways to hit with increased accuracy, increased power, minimal effort, and reduced risk of injury. Come learn how to easily control the depth and type of impact, from sting to thud, and learn ways to increase the depth of focused connection between partners, top or bottom, through impact play.If you have carpal tunnel, tennis elbow, rotator cuff, neck, back, or knee problems, or if you need to learn how to work with or want to prevent developing these issues, this is the session for you!
Creation in Flesh and Blood: Intro to Artistic Cutting
Michael Sol (sponsored by Kinky Medical)
Nowhere is art more profound than creating in human flesh and blood. Historically cutting has been used to express who we are in individual identity and for societal labeling. In discussion and demonstration Sol will share the art of cutting and its potential to harness energy to find intimacy, power, and spirituality through an artistic expression he calls Edgeart. An overview of technical aspects of a cutting will include hygiene and blood borne pathogen control as a prelude to the art. We will discuss the history and the psychology of body art, the nature and spirit of primal acts, and crossovers with Spirituality, Energy Work, and BDSM.
D/S Tantra: The Tao of Power Exchange
Sex, power and relationships, oh my! All our relationships involve an exchange of power. Some of these exchanges are subtle and unconscious, others are intentional and consensual. In this participatory workshop we’ll explore the different elements and styles of power exchange in sexual relationships.
We’ll work in pairs using techniques borrowed from Tantra and BDSM, including blindfolds and rope harnesses. As we experiment with consciously polarizing and uniting opposites, we’ll learn how to avoid the traps of falling into assumptions and disappointments about the roles varyingly (and often confusingly) referred to as yin/yang, dominant/submissive, top/bottom, butch/femme, male/female.
You’ll learn how to create your own personalized style of power sharing and discover how the conscious, intentional use of active and receptive energies can amp up the energy in any Tantric ritual or BDSM scene.
Dominance Bondage
Two Knotty Boys will show you rope techniques specifically for dominance and submission play. You’ll learn more than a dozen ways to restrain, control or train your submissive including fast and struggle-proof wrist bondage and advanced chest harnesses, a dynamic full-access hog tie, rope bit gags, basic rope CBT and nipple predicament bondage. Ways to orchestrate a scene, aggressive play and take-downs will also be included. You can come with a friend to practice with or come solo and work with a classmate. Please bring two pieces of rope: two 10’ long and two 20’-30’ long.
This class offers plenty of supervised practice, peppered with lots of lighthearted humor. Couples recommended. Bring two 10-foot lengths and two 20- to 30-foot (preferably solid braid 3/8" diameter or thicker; however, hemp rope will also do).
Erotic Breathwork
Breath is your greatest source of energy and aliveness. It can produce so much pleasure, it will amaze you. Once you become familiar with moving erotic energy around with your breath, you’ll find all your erotic encounters to be much more fulfilling. Your orgasms will be longer and deeper. You will share a more authentically intimate connection with a partner. You’ll even find yourself using breath techniques in non-erotic situations to bring erotic energy to more and more areas of your life.
In this workshop we will learn and practice a variety of simple breath techniques that you can put together to create unlimited erotic possibilities. Then we’ll put them together to explore the the vast range of orgasms which lie beyond those achieved by genital stimulation. Finally, we’ll practice energy orgasm techniques that you’ll be able to incorporate into whatever kind of sex and play you enjoy.
Esoteric Caning
While deceptively simple in appearance and apparently straight-forward in its usage, the cane and its close cousins (rods, switches, clubs and batons), can be the most versatile objects in your toybag. Indeed, in the hands of a skilled practitioner, a toybag containing nothing but a single cane is complete. While it is true that canes can be one of the more extreme tools in the SM toolbox, they also can be used to deliver surprisingly light and precise sensations, pressure point activations, abrasions and leverage techniques. In the right hand, a cane can even produce a hypnotic state. This class assumes that you already know how to swing a cane to hit your bottom’s ass; rather, it will focus on more advanced applications of this remarkable tool.
Experiencing Electro Stim
This course is intended primarily for those new to electrical play using TENS type units such as Folsom, PES and Eros Tek power sources. It is intended to give the beginner a basic understanding of what is involved in this sort of electrical play, such as very basic circuit theory, theory of the operation of the power source, and the various electrodes involved.
Participants will gain firsthand experience with what internal electrical stimulation feels like, go into the differences between the various power sources available, and give the user a basic knowledge of electrical theory so they can feel more confident in the use of electro stim devices. Due to the expense, and the non shareable nature of the electrodes, many people have had no exposure to this form of play. This course is designed to address that issue specifically. The course is not intended to instruct in technique so much as it is to expose and educate in the basic fundamentals in the use of TENS type units and inserted electrodes.
Course attendance is based upon pairs of participants. Attendance is done in pairs to assure sanitary conditions. One person will insert the provided electrode, the other person will manipulate the power source and interchange the power source with other models so as to administer the different sensations each power source produces. Only one person in the pair will have the electrode inserted, and only one will hook up and administer the power source. Switching the electrode from one person to the other is not permitted for sanitation concerns. Attendance in pairs is mandatory for these reasons.
Attendance is limited to nine couples and each will experience three different power sources. Participants will use one power source for a time, be instructed in its use, and then switch the power source until such time as all participants have experienced the various effects of all three power sources.
At the end of the course, participants will be allowed to keep the electrode they have used. Cost is $75 per couple. This covers the expenses in providing an electrode to each participant pair, as well as clean up and sterility supplies. Participants need to be physically capable of inserting a one and a half inch diameter, four inch long cylinder either vaginally or anally as this is the size of the electrode used.
Couples will be chosen by a random drawing. You must be registered for KinkFest to enter the drawing. To sign up, send an email to Electro Stim Class with your name, email address, and KinkFest registration number. The deadline for entering the drawing is 8 AM Thursday, March 1. Winners will be announced by noon March 1. If any workshop slots are not paid for by 8 AM March 15, those slots will be vacated and alternate winners will be notified. One entry per couple, please.
Exploring Whips for Dynamic Scene Creation
Ahhh... A good whipping... Fiery bites and vicious slashes, only suitable for the most experienced players with 8-foot bullwhips, right? Not at all! Join Tim, Guy and Annamarie to learn the ins and outs of the whip, from the nitty gritty of cleaning and maintenance to safety and scene development. We will show you the different types of whips - snake, signal, mini-bull, bull, tomcat, quirt, dragon tongue and "bedroom" whips - and how to choose the best one for you. Tops will learn how to build a scene from warm-up to conclusion, and bottoms will learn about receiving the whip and will get some tips on bottoming to this kind of play.
Tops, bring your own whips (4' or shorter) if you have them as this will be a very hands-on workshop. Those wishing to experience receiving the whip will be able to have a short tasting or to be a practice bottom for those learning. Your instructors will be joined by several other experienced whip tops to provide you with an intimate one-on-one learning opportunity. There will be a variety of whips for you to practice with should you not have your own.
Fisting For Perverts (Fisting 601)
Maybe you know how to fist someone.
Or maybe you can’t quite get enough of your cunt or ass being filled by a solid mass of hand.
But what happens next? Where and what is the 601 of fisting?
Welcome to Fisting For Perverts.
In this demonstration packed workshop Felice will begin with a quick review of anatomy basics, show a few exercises to strengthen and make the vagina and anus more receptive to large toys and hands, and make sure we all agree about how we insert our hands with ease, smarts, dexterity and endless sexiness.
Next we will amp up the fisting volume with show and tell time: how the big kids play – double fisting, fisting in suspension, anal fisting, fisting front and back doors simultaneously… and much more.
All genders and levels of experience are welcome.
Flogging PantherStyle - Another Look at Flogging
This class covers some of the various techniques which I use with floggers. Safety is emphasized throughout. Flogger construction and materials are discussed. Basic throws are discussed and demonstrated, including forward, reverse, crosshand, overhead, backhand. Patterns such as circular and Figure 8 are included. Two handed techniques including “Florentine” will be discussed. Positioning is emphasized. Balance and movement and how to integrate them into your scene is demonstrated.
FTM CBT: Genital Torment for Queer Bodies
Let’s admit it- doing genital torment on transguys is different than doing it on other bodies. In some ways we get the best of all worlds- so let’s talk about our desires to torment, tease, punish and pamper our amazing flesh. After discussing the varieties of genitals out there to play with (and what we call them) in this category and how our hormones and modifications (or having had neither) have affected our CBT and sex, we will demonstrate and discuss a wide variety of torment options. Abrasion, piercing, bondage, clamps, caning… plus more advanced concepts like playing with trans genital humiliation will all be up for grabs. Add some dirty talking and negotiation skills into the mix- and watch us squirm!
Getting Wet: G-Spot and Ejaculation
What makes a woman (or anyone with a vagina/front door, for that matter) soak the sheets? Where is that mysterious thing called the G-Spot? With straight talk and humor Felice Shays will discuss the anatomy, myths and realities of vaginal ejaculation, and how to find and stimulate the g-spot (yes, even via the ass!). Then comes the live squirt demonstrations! As time allows, Felice will help individuals and partners find their g-spots so that they too might make lovely messes. Open to all genders, sexual orientations, single or partnered.
Getting What You Want in your BDSM Relationship(s)
Regardless of whether you are monogamous, polyamorous or somewhere in between, we often do play with multiple people. In this workshop we will focus on negotiation tactics and practices to facilitate playing with others besides your regular partner or a new partner. Boundary and expectation setting, and being clear about the difference between the two, are practices that can foster more satisfying play experiences and build strong relationships. We will do several exercises that explore what each of us wants from our play and relationships. Followed by exercises for communicating these discoveries with a potential partner.
Hard Points for Bondage
Partial or full suspensions? No, we won't be talking about rope work, instead, we'll cover the hard points from which rope work is suspended.
This class will cover materials and other factors that should be taken into consideration when creating rigging hard points. Safety factors will be discussed first, followed by selection of rigging hardware, strength of beams and slings, and other items of importance.
How to Play with Fire without getting Burned
If you have ever wanted to play with fire, this lecture-based class will give you a basic understanding of the safety precautions and logistics needed for fire play and performance. While actual fire play is outside the scope of this class, we will discuss many elements of safe fire play, including how to safely set-up your scene, essential safety equipment for fire play, and the advantages and disadvantages of commonly-used fuels. In addition, we will explore the fire codes that apply to fire performances, and whether your fire play at an event could constitute a performance.
Humiliation Play: When Being Down in the Gutter Makes You Feel on Top of the World
Do you fantasize about being called a stupid cunt, dirty piggy or some other delicious degrading name or phrase excite you? Does the thought of being spat upon as you are sitting in a puddle of piss get you all hot and bothered? Are you a Top who truly desires to take his bottom to the lowest low, watching with satisfaction as he surrenders to your cruelty, tears flowing down his face? Does the thought of forcing your submissive to eat out of a dog bowl as you penetrate her anally, calling her a filthy "fuck toy" really get your juices flowing? What is it about humiliation play that is so satisfying and yet causes so much conflict within ourselves? How do we deal with the after effects that often come with this kind of play and yet, still keep trudging forward in a realm that brings us so much joy? In this class we will discuss these things and more. Topics with include kinds of humiliation play, responsibility and ethics when it comes to this kind of play, negotiation, precare, aftercare and how to take that plunge into the lowest of the low with confidence and joy!
WARNING: There will be demonstrations in this class that may be triggering to some.
Interrogation I
Master Trooper Frank, slave paul, slave willie
The purpose of any given Interrogation is to retrieve information from the interrogatee. For purposes of those of us in the BDSM community, we can broaden the definition of an interrogation to include the recreational pursuit of dominating, captivating, physically abusing, torturing, and most importantly, psychologically mind-fucking the prisoner to the point that he or she gives up the previously planted information. In the process of extracting that information, the Interrogator is free to use the infliction of pain, electroshock, forced abnormal prolonged positions, food and sleep deprivation, beatings, mock execution, breath control, hypersound generation or sensory deprivation, painful bondage, and whatever you and the prisoner have negotiated prior to the session (if that is your relationship). Counter to this list is the most crucial tool in the Captor's pocket, and that is psychological manipulation, to include becoming the prisoner's friend and attempting to obtain cooperation. This workshop is a very involved and intricate class with the goal of giving the attendees the skills needed to negotiate, set-up, institute, produce and successfully complete a session with the interrogatee surrendering or "breaking" under the administered pain, pleasure or both. The psychological and physical dynamics will be discussed and demonstrated with my subject strapped into an interrogation chair. Aftercare and pitfalls and benefits of this type of activity will be addressed.
Interrogation II
Master Trooper Frank, slave paul, slave willie
The purpose of any given Interrogation is to retrieve information from the interrogatee. For purposes of those of us in the BDSM community, we can broaden the definition of an interrogation to include the recreational pursuit of dominating, captivating, physically abusing, torturing, and most importantly, psychologically mind-fucking the prisoner to the point that he or she gives up the previously planted information. In the process of extracting that information, the Interrogator is free to use the infliction of pain, electroshock, forced abnormal prolonged positions, food and sleep deprivation, beatings, mock execution, breath control, hypersound generation or sensory deprivation, painful bondage, and whatever you and the prisoner have negotiated prior to the session (if that is your relationship). Counter to this list is the most crucial tool in the Captor's pocket, and that is psychological manipulation, to include becoming the prisoner's friend and attempting to obtain cooperation. This workshop is a very involved and intricate class with the goal of giving the attendees the skills needed to negotiate, set-up, institute, produce and successfully complete a session with the interrogatee surrendering or "breaking" under the administered pain, pleasure or both. The psychological and physical dynamics will be discussed and demonstrated with my subject strapped into an interrogation chair. Aftercare and pitfalls and benefits of this type of activity will be addressed.
Kinesthetic Polyamoury with Jim Duvall & Sophia Sky
Knowing something in our heads often doesn’t mean we have a complete understanding. Knowing something "in your gut" often gives that deeper understanding. Using physical activities, this class explores various polyamourous relationship configurations and inspires understanding, empathy and comperson for your partners. Techniques adapted from Tai Chi, Contact Dance and Systems based Psychology will give you the opportunity to learn more about your unique relationship dynamic. You do not have to come with your current partners to benefit from this workshop. This class is designed for singles, partners, triads, leather families, etc... Please come prepared to participate in movement based techniques. (This is a fully accessible class.)
KinkFest Dungeon Etiquette or It's my first time what the hell?
Mark and Marlene will help guide you through the ins and outs of the dungeon and play parties. We'll discuss what to wear, what you can expect, what to do when you get there, and things to make you and those around you comfortable. The class will also cover: how to ask someone to play, negotiation and making a scene happen, along with safety issues and Safer Sex issues. Safe, Sane and Consensual vs. Risk Aware, Consensual Kink. Learn about the dungeon, what the rules are, how to behave and act, who are Dungeon Monitors and what the hell they are for! Feel safe and comfortable in the dungeon all weekend with what you learn in this workshop. Bring your questions, bring your thoughts, and we will discuss the niceties of the naughty side of BDSM!
Latex 101
In this workshop you will learn how to repair tears, holes and other problems in your latex garments; what tools and materials you will need to effect those repairs; and where to buy your supplies. This class is designed to give beginners a working knowledge of latex garment repair. Previous sewing or latex garment construction experience is not required.
Mummification and Encasement
Come explore devices and materials to encase your partner in, such as sleepsacks, straightjackets, lotus sacks, hoods and armbinders in spandex, PVC, and darlex, as well as mummification using cling wrap and duct tape. We will discuss what these different devices and materials are like from both the top/dominant’s and bottom/submissive's perspectives, along with tips and techniques for using these devices to create a sensual, sexy, intense experience for everyone involved. One or more lucky participants will be used for the demos!
NCSF - The Alleged Domestic Violence Class
It is important for SM-Leather-Fetish persons to have an understanding of the relationship between the SM community and law enforcement and of the numerous legal issues that can affect us - specifically the law enforcement response to an alleged domestic violence call. Once this is accomplished, we can constructively interact with law enforcement if the need arises. This presentation will focus on two aspects of this relationship - constructively dealing with officers and avoiding legal trouble. This workshop does not go in depth about the "cycle of abuse" or "real/actual" domestic violence, rather it is about consensual SM being misinterpreted as domestic violence by law enforcement.
Omotenashi - Predictive/Anticipatory Service for People Who Can't Read Minds
This workshop is about exploring ways to fulfill the wants, needs, and desires of the people you adore using a framework that includes simple techniques to enable you to respond to those needs and desires before they are felt. Going beyond the simple how-tos, we will also discuss ways of cultivating the heart and mind to achieve the ability to adapt to varying situations and challenges with grace and flexibility, and to find a sense of deep satisfaction through both mundane and deeply devoted acts of service.
Pain Processing and Catharsis
What exactly is it about pain that gives us opportunities for personal awareness and a deeper spiritual connection? Would you like to increase your ability to process sensation? Do you find yourself beginning to fly but continue to hold back out of fear? Are you a Top who wishes to learn new methods of supporting your bottom as he processes sensation, allowing him to really fly? In our society we are conditioned to hold in our feelings, which can prevent us from being our authentic selves and finding the joy and freedom that we deserve. A cathartic experience can be frightening for both bottoms and Tops for this reason. We will discuss ways to move through that moment of fear (or support your partner in doing so) to explore catharsis. In this class we will focus on learning to move energy/pain in ways that create more enriching experiences in our play. Each participant will have the opportunity to practice methods of processing sensation as well as discuss the joys and pitfalls of playing on the edge.
Palpation for Rope Play with Sophia Sky
Palpation is the skill of gathering information through touch. Learn how to find where those pesky nerves are, which muscles are tight, and how to assess your partner’s state of being without asking “are you ok?” Increasing your palpation skills can also increase connection between top & bottom and body awareness, both of which make for safer and more satisfying play. This class will include several exercises and drills to develop your palpation abilities.
Pony Play - From the Stable to the Barnyard
What is pony play? Are people really drawn to being objectified and treated as an animal? What does it feel like to own or train human pony? How does one get someone into the right sort of headspace, and what is that space like? In this course we examine what draws us to animal role play and begin to explore the nature of pony play, the desires around the archetypal roles that we assign to powerful creatures. We'll also talk, naturally, about pony gear, practical points around play, fitness and health, and how communication works when one party is doing none of the talking.
Predicament Bondage
Here's a class for fun-loving, wicked tops and for bottoms who enjoy a challenge. A predicament bondage creates a situation where the bottom is 'between a rock and a hard place.' Which ever direction the bottom moves has consequences, either physical or psychological. It can challenge your endurance, your pain threshold, or your pride. Learn the strategies on how to plan a fun scene. The class will include several demos, and you may have an opportunity to volunteer for one. If you're a service bottom or an escape artist, you may get a new challenge!
Pumping 101 with Pumpmaker
The workshop is very comprehensive and interactive, utilizing live models/stunt bottoms and volunteers from the audience.
Topics covered will be:
· 'Pumping 101' (A basic introduction to pumping.)
· 'Pumping For Playtime Enhancement' (How pumping increases sensitivity and improves orgasms.),
· 'Pumping For Permanent Body Modification' (Why it really does work.)
· 'Pumping In Scene Play' (Uses in bondage, punishment, torture, forced orgasms, and orgasm deprivation.)
· 'Pumping Q & A (Answers from me and my 28 years' experience using and creating pump toys/tools.)
The workshop also utilizes an ongoing multimedia presentation with movies and still photos.
Relating to Rope
All too often in our quest to gain proficiency in bondage, the original reasons and fantasies that drove us here in the first place take a back seat to technique. We lose sight of the forms of sexual freedom and expression we were seeking when we began the journey. In this workshop, we will do a series of exercises to capture those fantasies both as tops and bottoms. We will all do guided meditations (new age term for hypnosis) and group sharing to gather and experience the variety of ways we can all fantasize about and experience bondage. No tools are required to participate and participation in the exercises is mandatory. Some portions of the workshop may involve lying on the floor and a pillow and or blanket is suggested for comfort.
Rough Sex
· Swing a mean flogger, but not sure how to translate all this to the bedroom?
· Want to play rough in bed, but not into the complicated gear?
· Already have a hard time saying where the wrestling stops and the sex begins, but want to pick up some new ideas?
This workshop focuses on practical tools and how to find what works for you and your partner. It's taught mostly from the top's perspective, but includes some good material for bottoms. Come learn from and enjoy illustrative examples of specific points, both live and on video.
Once upon a time, Russell would have nothing to do with mixing sex and BDSM.
Sensual Body Drumming
Join us as the rhythm connects us and we share the powerful tribal energy that body drumming creates.
More mellow than a caning; more energetic than a drum circle. Take band class into the dungeon & use your bottom as a drumset! Great for warmups or as a fun & sensual session - but can easily be ramped up & incorporated with usual caning techniques for those who don't want their bottom to get TOO comfy ;)
Massage tables are limited so this workshop is limited to 12 couples. Those able to bring their own massage tables are also welcome to join.
Bring drumsticks or other matched-pair drumming implements. Hands on/All skill levels welcome
Sir! Yes Sir! : Exploring, Developing, Implementing and Enforcing Protocol
Everyone in the Dominant/submissive and Master/slave community seems to talk about protocol, but what is it exactly? Where does the line between "common sense" and "etiquette" stop, and protocol begin? We will look at what Protocol is in a D/s context, delve into terminology, and then examine formats of commonly recognized protocol systems and how these things develop in individual relationships and group dynamics. How does protocol change from public interactions to existing 24-7 in private dynamics? Once we have examined what protocol can be, we will look into how to further develop our chosen dynamics, implement them consistently, and then discuss the difference between enforcing protocol and punishment techniques. These concepts do NOT just apply to M/s and D/s dynamics- from active listening to self sabotage, this class will touch on communication and lifestyle skills for all types of relationships.
Some Kinks Are Not Okay! Morning Stretch with The Wee Pixie
Come join The Wee Pixie for some gentle, yet active stretching to help get the unwelcome kinks out. We'll do an easy-to-follow combination of yoga, Tai Chi and dynamic muscle release. Bring comfortable clothes and a yoga mat if you have one. This session will be suitable for all levels.
Sounding for All
Sounds have come a long way from the excruciating treatments for urethral scarring. These days we primarily use them for pleasure, and oh! what a pleasure it is! The feeling of smooth metal entering the urethra is truly unique, and can result in incredible prostate and g-spot stimulation - and that’s all before adding the little extras like vibration and electricity. I’ll be going over the different types of sounds, health concerns and risks associated with this type of play. There will be an exciting live demonstration showing how to use sounds on both female and male bodies, and on how to add extra sensation to your scene!
Temporary Branding w/Violet Wand
When most people think of branding, a hot iron generally comes to mind. However, there is more than one way to brand someone... and the brand doesn't even have to be permanent! A violet wand can be an effective tool to temporarily mark someone. Learn about how electricity can singe the skin safely and watch an actual demonstration of an electrical brand! We will also be discussing other advanced violet wand techniques such as electrical fire play, and how to extend your scene with electricity.
Temporary Piercing 201 - Beyond the Basics
So, you now have an understanding of the basics, safety issues and mechanics of temporary play piercing, and you want to add a little zing to your scene. Come and join Robyn as she shares how she combines her love of putting sharp things into soft flesh with expressing her artistic and creative urges! This workshop will explore various ways to place the needles, as well as how to combine objects with needles to create a living work of art. This will be a hands-on and interactive workshop, so if you have access to needles, bring them, as well as your own creative ideas and let’s have some fun!
The Art of the Climb: Size Does Matter
This is a hands on class for those interested in exploring using their whole body as a tool for play. Class will begin with a climbing demo so you can see what this looks like. The class is open to all body types, even if you have specific areas of body weakness and think this class might not work for you. We will go over how to use your body and weight, and how to play with pressure and impact. We will cover both topping and bottoming. If possible, please wear loose clothing and make sure you can remove your shoes. If you have special needs please come a few minutes early so we can talk to you before class.
The Doctor is IN
Fantasy play is a must in the Kink world if you wish to sustain a long term relationship or just mix it up for a new scene. Medical play is one of the easiest scenes to set up because scrubs are cheap and you can use little or no tools to play. Come delve into the cartoon world of Dr. Evil and his naughty nurse as he examines a willing patient to determine what their sickness really is all about! From the simple (yet evil) tongue depressor to the tubes, bags, bottles and needles, medical play will be exposed for all it’s fun when the Doctor is IN!
The Ultimate Guide to Being a Lazy Top
It takes a lot of work to be a Top, doesn't it? All that knot-tying and flogging and spanking really makes you work up a sweat. And your lucky bottom just gets to lie there and drift off into la-la-land. Well, now it's time to turn the tables. With the proper mindset, technique, big ol' honkin' "toys" and a willing participant, you too can enjoy endless hours of sadomasochistic pleasures from your favorite La-Z-Boy chair. Yes, that's right, FifthAngel will reveal the hidden secrets of the ancient art of getting everything from doing nothing.
The Warrior/slave Paradigm
The warrior has always been one who set aside self in service to a cause or person the warrior perceived as greater than him or herself. Raised the product of a radically feminist family, Jazz always knew she was a warrior; she never, however, expected to find herself a slave. After over a decade in the lifestyle and a begrudging surrender to the fact that slavery was a need she could not abandon, she still struggles with her own perceptions of herself at times. Konraad, with his fondness for strong women, has previously encountered this internal struggle in others, and has done his own research in efforts to reconcile these archetypes. In this class, we bring together research, experience, heart and soul as we witness the merging of the warrior and the slave. We will explain the warrior archetype and demonstrate that a historical warrior is defined not so much by aggressive combative tendencies as by dedication, service and adherence to a code of conduct which emphasizes abrogation of self, discipline and restraint. In adhering to such a code, warriors have always achieved a transcendent state. Consensual and service-based slaves of the modern world also set aside their own lives in service to another, following a model which is strikingly similar to historical warriors. Skills sets may differ, but the soul and purpose of the warrior is indeed that of the slave.
Violet Wand Basics and Beyond
You've seen them in the clubs. THOSE people. The ones who don't bring toybags, but rather come bearing hand trucks stacked with aluminum cases and crates of extension cords. Who are they, what are they doing, where is that purple glow coming from, and why are they all huddled around the electrical socket? The answer is violet wands. Learn about Nikola Tesla and the history of violet wands, direct, indirect and reverse techniques, internal electrical play, electrical fire play, and branding. Then stay to watch the interactive demonstration where many of these techniques will be used.
With Deadly Intent
Glimpse into a mirror and you may see light, then delve into the soul of a sadist and you may give rise to their murky unspeakable fantasies that may one day become your brutal reality. Some live with an emotional mayhem that is shoved to the darkest corners of the mind. Do I truly seek sexual pleasure or an opening unto my own living nightmares? At some impasse we see our own terror is a loss of control, loss of self or perhaps loss of love. Channel these frightening emotions to foster an unyielding power that is focused into the living to create light within. Learn to apply physical technique and passionate turmoil to wreak havoc in the name of pleasure.
Wrestling for Fun
Wrestling with a lover is hot, but also an easy route to injuries. How can we improve both our safety and our fun? Martial arts training assumes an uncooperative adversary that at best we have only vague preference for not injuring. We, on the other hand, might want the other person ready for sex in a few minutes. Come explore ways to adapt and enhance basic martial skills and body awareness with an eye toward mutual enjoyment.
Russell is neither a studly martial arts master nor a street fighter. He prefers tossing around people smaller and weaker than himself, or being tossed around by those larger and stronger. This class is about how to have fun with someone you like, managing both of your safety in the process.
