KinkFest Workshops
Workshop Schedule
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KinkFest 2025 Workshops
Unfortunately things happen and as such all workshops are subject to change without advance notice.
- Addressing Intimate Partner Violence and Abuse in Kink Relationships (Ember Solaris, Soren Solaris)
- Advanced Kink Techniques (Wintersong Tashlin)
- Advanced Scene Planning (Carmen Monoxide, Alex McGeorge)
- Auntie Midori’s Office Hours (Midori)
- Auntie Midori’s Pervertables Challenge (Midori)
- Authentic Interrogation for BDSM (Danarama, Little Chaoss)
- Autism and Kink (John Pendal, Jeff)
- BDSM and the Law (MxBliss)
- Becoming Leather: What You Need to Know (Master Devyn Stone)
- Bend, Don’t Break: Warm-Up and Pain Processing for Bondage (Shay Tiziano, Insignia)
- Body Modification Through Pumping (Cecilia T. Winters, Fischer Garrett)
- Chain Bondage for Beginners (Cecilia T. Winters, Fischer Garrett)
- Chain Suspension (Cecilia T. Winters, Fischer Garrett)
- Chemical Play (OrionVerse, Ally Brinken)
- Constructing a Scene with the Clothes on Your Back (Master WrathDaddy, Avienda)
- David Tops Goliath (Carmen Monoxide, Alex McGeorge)
- Deep Impact (Carmen Monoxide, Alex McGeorge)
- Discipline: Funishments and Punishments (OrionVerse, Ally Brinken)
- Dungeon Disasters (John Pendal, Jeff)
- Edgeplay: Pushing Limits (John Pendal, Jeff)
- Embody the Animal Within (Mx Wilcox, Pony Tromper)
- Facesitting Skills (Luna Matatas)
- Fast and Fun Rope Tips and Tricks (Shay Tiziano, Insignia)
- Femme in the Kink Scene: Bottoming and Topping (Midori)
- Forbidden Desires (Master Devyn Stone)
- Fun with Fluids! (Luna Matatas)
- Hands-On Needle Play (Wintersong Tashlin)
- Humor and Sex: Laughing Our Way to Intimacy (Lee Harrington)
- Is That a Knife? Are You Flirting with Me? (Ms. J, Eid)
- It's a Small World: Navigating Community Spaces Post Break-Up (Dare Campbell)
- Jaded: When Kink Loses Its Sparkle (Alain, TiedRed)
- Kink for One: Playing Solo (DearCaroline)
- Kinking with Chronic Illness (AbundantMischief, Frrrankie)
- Love Languages for Alternative Sexuality Communities (Lee Harrington)
- Make Me Bleed: Exploring Your Relationship with Blood and Sharps (Ember Solaris, Soren Solaris)
- Make Me: A Not So 101 Class on CNC (Alain, TiedRed)
- Making the Switch: Finding Your Flow (Eirikah Delaunay)
- Mean Ground Rope for Everyone (Provocations, Alice Sky)
- Mummification (Danarama, Little Chaoss)
- Non-Monogamous Power Exchange (Dare Campbell)
- Out of Your Head, Into Your Body (Luna Matatas)
- Playing with Predicaments (AbundantMischief, Frrrankie)
- Pleasure in Pairs: Florentine Whipping for Tops and Bottoms (Master Robert)
- Practical Chastity for People with Penises (Dare Campbell)
- Pressure Points for Creating Pleasure and Pain (Noble Manqué, BaconXXX)
- Red Cheeks: Spanking for Pleasure (Master Robert)
- Screaming in the Woods: How To Primal Hunt (Alain, TiedRed)
- Sensation and Sensory Play (Ms. J, Eid)
- Sensual Savagery (Ms. J, Eid)
- Service with a Smile (Mx. Pucks A'Plenty)
- Sir! Yes Sir! Exploring Protocols in Power Exchange Dynamics (Lee Harrington)
- Small But Mighty: Microbondage for Fingers, Toes, and Faces (Hitchin' Kitten, Tesla)
- Storytime For Littles (Master WrathDaddy, Avienda)
- Substance and Play (OrionVerse, Ally Brinken)
- Taking the Office to the Maxxx: Stapling Outside the Box (Ember Solaris, Soren Solaris)
- Talk Dirty to Me: Using Words to Turn the Hotness to 11 (Eirikah Delaunay)
- The BDSM and Fetish Pony (Mx Wilcox, Pony Tromper)
- The Bimbo Tie (Provocations, Alice Sky)
- The Philosophy of Objectification (Noble Manqué, BaconXXX)
- The Poke and the Pull: Playing with Porcupine Quills (DearCaroline)
- The Sadistic Art of Eight Limbs (Master WrathDaddy, Avienda)
- Trampling and Boot Play (AbundantMischief, Frrrankie)
- Violet Wands: From Sensual to Sadistic (Danarama, Little Chaoss)
- Welcome to the Dungeon: Your First (or Returning) KinkFest Dungeon Orientation (Maeve McBride)
- What Are You Afraid Of? (Master Devyn Stone)
- What Harness, What Shape: Suspension Choices (Shay Tiziano, Insignia)
- Whipology: How to Buy, Throw, and Feel the Whip (Master Robert)
Addressing Intimate Partner Violence and Abuse in Kink Relationships
The topic of intimate partner violence (IPV), sometimes referred to as domestic violence, and abuse can be challenging to navigate. This class provides a safe and non-judgmental space to explore the complexities of IPV and abuse within kinky relationships. We will discuss the distinctions between consensual power exchange and abusive dynamics, recognize warning signs of unhealthy behavior, and empower individuals to set boundaries and seek support when needed. Participants will gain a deeper understanding of how abuse can manifest in both kink and vanilla relationships, learn strategies for fostering healthy communication, and discover resources for those who may be experiencing or witnessing abuse. Whether you're part of the kink community, non-monogamous community, queer community, or more, this class will offer valuable insights into maintaining safety, consent, and mutual respect in all relationships.
Keywords
abuse, consent, safety, risk, community, mental health, relationships
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Advanced Kink Techniques
This workshop contains more advanced material for people interested in pushing the boundaries in their exploration of kink. Topics discussed and demonstrated include basic needle play, urethral sounding, and punching play. The discussion portion will include why people choose these techniques, how to do them as safely as possible, and ways to extract the most enjoyment and use out of them.
Keywords
needles, sounding, punching
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Advanced Scene Planning
Carmen Monoxide, Alex McGeorge
Planning and executing a high-concept scene can take a lot of thought and effort. This class will help participants looking to gain confidence with preparing and executing an intense or important scene by walking attendees through how to analyze, negotiate, and plan.
Keywords
planning, preparation, high-concept scenes, negotiation
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None |
Auntie Midori’s Office Hours
Welcome to office hours with the dean of kink herself. Drop in to visit, get her advice, ask questions, pour your heart out, have some good conversations, pick her brain, and meet other folks. Need advice on how to make the most out of this conference or kink spaces in general? Something on your mind? Looking for no-BS information? Or maybe you just want to enjoy a chill, low-key place with nice people. Everyone welcome! Midori is a full-time educator and coach, who works with individuals as well as advising and helping therapists to be kink knowledgeable. Stop by any time during office hours - the door is open for you.
Keywords
advice, conversation, kink
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None |
Auntie Midori’s Pervertables Challenge
What’s a “pervertable”? It’s turning an ordinary, everyday object—something definitely not designed as a kink tool—into a delightfully devious kink toy. Kitchen spatulas, clothespins, and laundry ropes, to name a few classics. Why play with pervertables? Because they’re fun, cheap, creative, surprising, and oh-so-practical! No fancy gear? Pervertables to the rescue! Found yourself in an unexpected play opportunity without toys at hand? Pervertables save the day! Traveling with just a carry-on and want to avoid awkward TSA conversations? You guessed it, pervertables! Midori, known for her wickedly clever and creative mind, is basically the MacGyver of pervdom. So we decided to put her to the test in the ultimate Pervertables Challenge! Like the "Iron Chef" of kink, she’ll face a box of mystery objects and be tasked with coming up with ingenious kinky ideas on the spot. And who knows? She might even try them out right in front of us! Will she rise to the challenge? Will we leave with wild new ideas to incorporate into our own play? One thing’s for sure, this is going to be entertaining!
Keywords
pervertables, toys, DIY, creativity, challenge
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Authentic Interrogation for BDSM
Most people picture interrogation scenes as a bright light, a hard chair, and using yelling and torture to get a "secret" instead of a safe word. Yes, that can be fun. But if you really want to get into a sub's head — to yield a specific secret, a risky truth, or a signed confession — the effective process is actually much different. Tapping his degree in Communication (with an emphasis on POW interrogation), Danarama discusses and demonstrates a wide array of concepts and proven-effective questioning techniques gathered from the AMF 34-52 (US Army), the Kubark (CIA), the Reid Technique (police) and the Stasi (former East German) interrogation manuals and personal accounts of POW and criminal interrogations. He offers ideas on how you can leverage these principles to prepare and execute your own BDSM-based interrogation scenes to create realistic (and often real) effects, and arm you with ways to get your sub to talk.
Keywords
D/s, interrogation, improvisation, scenes, roleplay
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Autism and Kink
In this workshop, we look at the overlap of autism and kink. What is autism and what's the right language to use? Why might an autistic person be attracted to a kinky environment? Can BDSM be used as a form of sensory regulation? What’s the difference between neurotypical and autistic communication? What would be useful to know if you’re playing with a neurodivergent person? And how can you negotiate a scene with someone who doesn’t know where masking ends and they begin? This workshop isn't just for autistic folk, it can help anyone who feels like an outsider or would like to create a more inclusive environment.
Keywords
autism, neurodivergence, education
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None |
BDSM and the Law
Is that impact scene you are negotiating illegal and leave you open to legal liability? What happens if someone is injured in rope at your home? Is your kink or sex positive business at risk of violating local or federal laws? What if someone posts something on FetLife about you that is untrue or posts a picture of you on Instagram without your consent? What rights do you have to keep your personal information (name, address, workplace) confidential? How do you navigate the risk of operating a dungeon or hosting a kinky event? The legal issues unique to our lifestyle are numerous and can seem complex. This class is an overview of legal issues unique to those of us engaged in an alt-sex or the BDSM lifestyle. While local laws (and enforcement) vary widely, we’ll highlight issues/activities where you may want to do some deeper risk assessment, document things a bit more carefully, and talk to an attorney before engaging further.
Keywords
risk management, legal, law, poly, criminal, contracts, negotiation
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Becoming Leather: What You Need to Know
So you caught a whiff of Leather and you’re hungry to learn and discover what being Leather is all about. Where does a novice begin? In this foundation-building class, Devyn Stone guides attendees on what Leather is. While very brief bits of Leather history will be given, this class’s aim is to provide the attendee with a beginner’s working knowledge of what Leather is, examples of Leather traditions, language used in Leather communities, and what it takes to take on Leather as an identifier. This class is welcome to all attendees, regardless of experience, but is tailored to be introductory level.
Keywords
leather, community, lifestyle
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None |
Bend, Don’t Break: Warm-Up and Pain Processing for Bondage
There’s been a lot of research on effective warm-up, conditioning, stretching, and pain processing. Much of what we thought we knew years ago is probably wrong! For example, static stretching ≠ warm-up, and swearing at your top is evidence-based practice...let's talk about it! This class provides a nerdy, science-based overview of these topics. After reviewing the general principles, we’ll run through a warm-up, some conditioning and core exercises, and both static and dynamic stretches. Every body is different. Understanding the research and your goals and intentions will help you make choices that works for you. This is a body-positive class that can be modified for a spectrum of physical abilities and explores these topics as an optional addition to your bondage skillset.
Keywords
warm-up, health, bondage
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Body and health awareness to participate safely at a level appropriate for your body. Bring a yoga mat if you have one and comfortable clothing to move around in (or comfort being nude for the hands-on portion). |
Body Modification Through Pumping
Cecilia T. Winters, Fischer Garrett
Temporary body modification using pumping equipment can be a gender affirming/bending and sexually gratifying kink with ties into medical play, objectification, and dollification. We will discuss various types of pumping devices, the risks involved with this kink, tips we've found useful, and other important information. We will demo various pumping devices on nipples, breasts, and genitalia.
Keywords
genital pumping, pumping, medical play, objectification, dollification, edgeplay
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None |
Chain Bondage for Beginners
Cecilia T. Winters, Fischer Garrett
Chains are a kink staple that evoke images of dungeons and being trapped, feelings of cold and hard restraint, and power and control. This class is a discussion of risks and safety using chains for bondage, a demonstration of various metal connectors, and how to maintain tension and make single columns using chain with labbing time after each demonstration. Great for self- and partnered-bondage participants and absolute beginners!
Keywords
bondage, chain, tying, edgeplay
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The presenters will have plastic chain available to borrow to practice with during the workshop. If you wish to purchase your own starter chain kit ahead of time, the presenters recommend two 6 ft lengths of 1/4-in proof coil zinc-plated chain and four to six 1/4-in stainless steel screw-pin anchor shackles. |
Chain Suspension
Cecilia T. Winters, Fischer Garrett
Chain – that cold, heavy, unforgiving material. You’ve learned to bind yourself or your partner in it. You’ve lashed them and learned tension and body manipulation. The next challenge is using chain to fly! This class includes a brief discussion of risks and safety information including chain bondage suspension safety, a demonstration of creating single columns and tensioning techniques, and spreading weight through downlines. A demonstration of a simple suspension sequence will follow.
Keywords
bondage, chain, edgeplay, suspension
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Previously attending any prior introduction or iteration of Chain Bondage for Beginners is required. |
Chemical Play
What do ginger, soap, mint, and peppers all have in common? The capacity to use these and more to illicit anything from a gentle sensual experience to a whole new realm of torture. Join me as I go over the different substances you can use, where you can use them, and the safety considerations to keep in mind when starting out your chemical-filled adventure.
Keywords
edgeplay, chemical play, sadism, masochism
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None |
Constructing a Scene with the Clothes on Your Back
Traveling and forgot to pack your toy bag? Belts, shoes, socks, neckties, even the shirt on your back, can all be used to create exciting BDSM scenes.
Keywords
impact, bondage, creativity
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David Tops Goliath
Carmen Monoxide, Alex McGeorge
Are you a fun-size top with a king-size bottom? This class reviews the physical and psychological means that Doms/Tops can use when their physical size is not very domineering or their bottom is significantly larger than them. Topics and demonstrations include pressure points, exploiting weaknesses, voice and vocabulary, mind tricks, and sexual manipulation.
Keywords
topping, physical size, power dynamics
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Deep Impact
Carmen Monoxide, Alex McGeorge
If you crave deep and thuddy sensation, are seeking more extensive bruising, or want your partner to feel how much you care about them all the way down to their bones, this class is for you! Carmen will discuss marking, anatomical and safety concerns for scenes with deep thud, as well as general best practices and techniques. We'll demonstrate intense rough body play, how certain types of bondage and body positioning can help strikes penetrate further into the body, and which toys and pervertables can be enlisted to bring that extra oomph to your impact.
Keywords
impact, safety, bruising, pervertables, anatomy, edgeplay
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None |
Discipline: Funishments and Punishments
What do you think of when you think of discipline? Spanking? Standing in a corner? Writing lines? In kink dynamics, it can mean so much more than that depending on what is punishment, and what is a funishment, from person to person. In this class we will talk about all the different types of discipline and punishments that can be utilized within the context of a scene or dynamic.
Keywords
D/s, power dynamics, negotiation, consent, discipline
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Dungeon Disasters
A workshop about all the mistakes I've made so that you don't copy them! No matter how skilled you are as a BDSM player, things can and will always go wrong. This class examines both emotional and physical pitfalls of kinky scenes with tips for warning signs you should look out for, ways to avoid a disaster, and coping strategies when the worst situations seem to occur. We also look at some great questions to improve negotiation before a scene, and ideal aftercare for everyone involved.
Keywords
mistakes, risk awareness, negotiation, coping strategies
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None |
Edgeplay: Pushing Limits
In this class we examine the different definitions of edgeplay. Why do people do it? What are the extra risks you might need to consider? Is it possible for the bottom to lead? What should be the goal of the scene? How can we spot a trauma response, and what to do when we hit a bump in the road or a complete crash. This class also provides lots of practical tips for enjoying scenes where limits are pushed.
Keywords
edgeplay, cnc, exploring limits
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Embody the Animal Within
Journey into the space of connecting with your inner animal. This is a spiritually based class focusing on your relationship with yourself.
Keywords
animal, headspace, roleplay, journey, sacred, spiritual, meditation, expression
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Comfortable clothing recommended. |
Facesitting Skills
Do you think facesitting is hot but are worried about squishing someone's face? Are you hungry to be on the bottom but don't know what to do with your arms? Want to hop on and ride but your knees say 'nope!'? Face sitting is hot for a lot of reasons and challenging for a lot of others. Any body and any gender can enjoy face sitting!
Keywords
face sitting, queening, oral sex, power exchange
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Fast and Fun Rope Tips and Tricks
If you’ve ever said (or thought), "Rope takes too long!," "It’s too complicated!," or "I just want to do something fun/sexy/mean," we'll help you skip the fancy, difficult rope work in favor of versatile, easy-to-learn techniques with immediate applications. After a quick safety speed round (so the instructors can sleep at night), you’ll explore the basics of rope handling, spiral-style experiential ties, and delightfully intense foot, calf, and body ties. This hands-on class encourages self-tying for certain exercises, with a focus on partnered tying for others.
Keywords
rope, bondage, restraint
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To tie along, we recommend at least one half length (approx. 15 ft) of rope, one full length (approx. 30 ft) of rope, and safety scissors. Jute or hemp is preferred. Presenters will have some rope available for attendees to borrow. |
Femme in the Kink Scene: Bottoming and Topping
Kink and rope communities can sometimes feel unwelcoming or challenging for those embracing femme in all its glorious variations. Femme can be an identity, a state of being, or an exploration of a complex facet of the self—and all are valid. Yet, stereotyping, discrimination, and limited educational opportunities often create barriers. These challenges may leave us feeling frustrated, disempowered, or disconnected from our authentic desires. This class is an invitation to break free from those limitations. Join Midori for an open-hearted exploration of the issues femmes face and femme state explorations in kink and rope subcultures. Together, we’ll examine the ways internalized biases can impact our joy and connection and uncover practical, empowering strategies to navigate these challenges. We’ll reimagine femme archetypes beyond stereotypes, focusing on cultivating fulfilling play, authentic expression, and meaningful community engagement. You’ll discover practical tips, somatic strategies for powerful femme bottoming, and confident femme topping—all in a supportive and welcoming space. Expect some fun exercises, deep discussions, and the chance to celebrate your unique journey.
Keywords
femme, identity, community
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This class is open to everyone, whether you identify as femme, are exploring femme as a state of being, or are curious about its many facets. Friends, partners, and supporters are also very welcome. Civility is mandatory, and compassion is expected. |
Forbidden Desires
This workshop is aimed at those who enjoy a little taboo in their taboo play. Whether you're into dark age play, fear play, humiliation, degradation, consensual non-consent, or something darker, this is the place to talk about it. Devyn Stone facilitates the discussion pulling in his own experiences with fear play, consensual non-consent, and more.
Keywords
dark age play, fear play, humiliation, degradation, CNC
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None |
Fun with Fluids!
Want to have fun with sexy fluids safely, creatively, and shame-free? From semen to squirting to pee, fluids can make our sex lives juicier, but they can also bring mess, insecurity, and a yuck factor. This workshop will explore the various fluids involved in sex and pleasure, offering guidance on how to incorporate them into foreplay for added fun. Participants will learn how to improve communication with both new and existing partners about fluids such as cum, saliva, and pee. Practical tips for managing mess, navigating feelings of shame or disgust, and addressing health and safety considerations for fluid sharing will also be covered. Additionally, the class will provide techniques for creating erotic scenes with confidence, including squirting, swallowing, watersports/pee play, saliva play, facials, and engaging with ejaculate.
Keywords
fluids, watersports, golden showers, power exchange, sensation play
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Hands-On Needle Play
Most needle play classes focus on topics like basic versus advanced techniques, artistic placement, ribbons, and corsets. However, at its core, needle play is about the raw experience of placing sharp metal into tender flesh. In this class, we will learn some simple and easy ways to use needles to have a good time. We’ll start with what you need to know about safety, setup, proper tools, and cleanup afterward, then get to the hands-on learning.
Keywords
needles, sharps, safety
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Bring the partner/victim of your choosing (or be willing to be partnered randomly) and get ready to get your gloves on! |
Humor and Sex: Laughing Our Way to Intimacy
We’ve each had those moments — when the vibrator goes flying or the stereo goes off with just the wrong song, and suddenly sex has turned into hilarity. But looking beyond the accidents that make for funny stories later, how can we incorporate humor and comedy to purposefully add spice, connection, intimacy or variety to our bedroom (and other) erotic adventures? Exploring the different schools of comedy from absurdity and slapstick to satire, black comedy and dry observation, we will see how each can be included in our sexual escapades. Whether you are using humor to try something new, push a boundary, look back on past pain, or simply PLAY — this class is for you.
Keywords
humor, funny, sex, brainstorming, play, joy, kink
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None |
Is That a Knife? Are You Flirting with Me?
Shocking, sudden, forceful fist ensnaring your hair. Loud click. Distinct sharpness under your cheekbone. Whispered growl, “Don’t fucking move!” Why yes… I am flirting with you! Vibrating sensations of ripping clothing. Impending exposure as the shirt is cut neck to navel. Ragged breath of fear. Shall I gently trace your nipple with the tip of my blade? Carve my initials on your willing flesh? Childish games of tic-tac-toe where winner takes you as a prize? Yes… more flirting! Knife play intertwines fear, vulnerability, and control with sensual intrigue, intimacy, and antici-pation! Elicit your partner’s physical and emotional responses to nudity or doom. Are they the wet/erect exhibitionist, the shamed shrinking violet, the frozen frightened bunny, or closet exhibitionist who desired “forced nakedness”? Join Ms. J for a discussion of blade choice; its care and cleaning; negotiations, consent, and aftercare; safety tips to minimize risk; and response to, “Oh crap… is that blood?”
Keywords
knives, sensation, fear play, topping
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None |
It's a Small World: Navigating Community Spaces Post Break-Up
Community spaces can be both healing and challenging when a relationship ends. For those of us in sexuality-oriented communities that support kinky, non-monogamous, or Queer lives, break-ups can be especially complex. The communities we are seeking care and community support from are often the same spaces that our exes are seeking the same thing. During this workshop, Dare will talk about how to acknowledge and navigate the feelings that can come up, how we can decide on and enforce healthy boundaries, and discuss other unique circumstances that can arise. This workshop will centre on the importance of community spaces for mental health and overall well-being for marginalized people and include discussion of both in-person and online communities.
Keywords
relationship skills, poly, community, kink, queer, non-monogamy, safety
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Jaded: When Kink Loses Its Sparkle
Congratulations! You have been actively participating in the kink community for a hot minute and are having a great time. Until suddenly, without warning, participating in the scene does not feel so great. Now what? What do you do when a kink world that you’ve identified with for so long doesn’t feel as shiny? In this class, we’ll take a positive approach to unpacking the part of kink that is not often discussed in the open. There are several strategies we will discuss to recover from significant conflicts like a breakup, friendship going awry, or a consent violation even in such a small community. Whether you are a newbie looking for cautionary tales or working on finding your zest again, this class is for you!
Keywords
community, self-development, leadership, friendships, growth, moving on, mentorship, change, self-exclusion
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Kink for One: Playing Solo
This class will explore the various ways to have kinky fun if you don’t happen to have a partner to top or bottom for you. There will be discussion of how to engage in types of play solo that you might be used to only doing with a partner, including wax play, needle/sharps play, and even impact play. This class will also explore the emotional and psychological side of solo play, with an emphasis on how it can be used for self-reflection and connection with the self.
Keywords
solo, playing alone, impact, sharps, sensation
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None |
Kinking with Chronic Illness
This class covers adaptive strategies, tips, and tricks for playing while managing a chronic illness on both sides of the slash. Learn how to modify your scene ideas and favorite kinks to create fun, feasible play possibilities, as well as considerations for aftercare. Explore helpful questions to ask when negotiating play, both as a top and a bottom with chronic illness, as well as when negotiating with someone who may have a chronic illness, plus options for navigating disclosure of a chronic illness to potential play partners.
Keywords
chronic illness, negotiation, aftercare, modifications, impact, bondage, rough body play
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Love Languages for Alternative Sexuality Communities
When Dr. Gary Chapman introduced his book “The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate,” he came from the lens of being a Baptist pastor who practiced monogamy, and certainly didn’t look at the perspective of “alternative” sexual and relationship practices. In this class, we will look at adapting the love languages (words of affirmation, quality time, gifts, acts of service, and physical touch) to these various relationship structures — whether friends, play partners/lovers, partners, life mates, or D/s dynamics. With touch, for example, someone might want a hug… or a spanking! A gift could be roses… or a collar. Let’s share from our hearts, our experiences, and look at some other tools for communicating care, affection, connection, appreciation, and love alike.
Keywords
love languages, communication, intimacy, dynamics, polyamory, D/s, M/s, kink community, relationships
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None |
Make Me Bleed: Exploring Your Relationship with Blood and Sharps
Embark on a captivating journey into the intriguing realm of sharps and blood play with "Make Me Bleed", a transformative exploration that promises to redefine your understanding of (and relationship to) sensuality and the mysteries of desire, while prioritizing health and hygiene within our community. Dive deep into the essence of crimson passion as we dissect the intricacies of everything from blood-borne pathogens to crafting evidence-based risk assessments and infection prevention strategies. "Make Me Bleed" is your definitive guide to reducing the risks associated with indulging in your most daring desires, giving you more confidence and promoting responsible blood and sharps play. This isn't just any class – it's a transformative experience designed to enrich your understanding and empower your practices. Through engaging demonstrations, interactive discussions, and expert guidance, you'll not only gain practical knowledge, but also foster a deeper connection with self.
Keywords
blood, edgeplay, needles, sharps, impact, health, biohazard, first aid, risk mitigation
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Some background or interest in blood and sharps play is beneficial. |
Make Me: A Not So 101 Class on CNC
Consensual Non-Consent (CNC) play is getting increasingly more popular and less taboo in the kink community. This class dives into what CNC means, why we like it, how we struggle with actually making it happen, the various types of CNC play, and how to safely get started with it.
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CNC, wrestling, overpowering, consent, ravishment, abduction, power exchange, tickling
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Making the Switch: Finding Your Flow
In our traditionally binary D/s community, switches have unique challenges in finding and expressing their often fluid authentic identities and desires. Whether you switch inside your relationships, have different dynamics in different relationships, or you’re just starting to experiment with the pleasures of the “other side of the slash,” learning to surf your own energetic flow is essential to getting all your switchy needs met and letting your full self come out to play. In this interactive workshop, we’ll discuss and practice tools for you and your partners to flip your energetic switch, occupy the headspace you desire, and play in the role of your choice with confidence. You absolutely can enjoy All The Things!
Keywords
switch, flow, headspace, energy
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Mean Ground Rope for Everyone
Rope can be the perfect tool for intensity, suffering, and sadomasochism. This hands-on class will prove that a little bit of rope can get a huge reaction, even without suspension or uplines. We will learn ties on the toes, calves, crotch, and torso, then learn to combine them to create a full scene or predicament.
Keywords
sadomasochism, safety, mean rope, rope bondage
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Tops will need a single column tie, tight tension, and good rope handling to achieve the proper effect. Bottoms need experience with pain processing and communicating while in pain. |
Mummification
Learn about mummification bondage and how to safely use it for BDSM and kinky sex. This workshop demonstrates a variety of mummification techniques and positions, including partial and complete body wrapping using vet wrap, bondage tape, clingwrap, shrinkwrap, and duct tape. See how to achieve penetration with toys through openings in the wrappings, including remote control wireless vibrators and a hitachi wrapped within the mummification. You'll also learn a variety of sensation play techniques to try on your mummified partner, such as fingernails, external vibrators, and violet wand electrical play.
Keywords
bondage, mummification, body wrapping, stimulation
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None |
Non-Monogamous Power Exchange
A submissive serving two Dominants? Owners who are also owned by someone else? Dominants with a "stable" of submissives? In this class, we're going to talk about navigating non-monogamy and power exchange. We will pay particular attention to setting boundaries, metamour (your partner’s partner) connections, and how to balance multiple levels of power exchange at the same time.
Keywords
non-monogamy, polyamory, negotiation, power exchange
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Out of Your Head, Into Your Body
If you've ever felt you're missing out on pleasure because you get in your head during sex, you're not alone! This workshop will help you understand how you get out of your head, strategies for coming back to the present, sensual tools for staying in the moment, and communication to encourage your partners to be mindfully sexy. Many of us experience distractions during intimacy, such as body dissatisfaction or concerns about our partner's experience. Performance anxiety—whether worrying about taking too long or finishing too quickly—can also interfere, as can changes in desire caused by stress, body changes, or relationship challenges. Bedroom boredom, lack of communication, and feelings of shame about desires, body fluids, or noises are additional factors that can impact our connection and pleasure. We will unpack our distractions, create more space for pleasure, and give you techniques for navigating distraction and coming back to your sensual self when it does happen. Learn techniques for creating more mindfulness during partnered and solo sex for more pleasure!
Keywords
mindfulness, pleasure, connection
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Playing with Predicaments
Explore a range of approaches for creating predicaments: scenes that provide bottoms with challenging choices. From bondage and stress positions to psychological dilemmas, learn strategies and tools for crafting predicaments within the types of play you already enjoy. This class covers a range of topics, including understanding the psychological "predicament headspace" and how to cultivate it. Participants will explore mindfucks and mental dilemmas, delve into physical predicaments such as bondage, stress positions, and pain, and examine emotional sadomasochism in predicaments. Additionally, the class will highlight ways to use predicaments to expand your play horizons.
Keywords
predicament, bondage, stress positions, dilemmas
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Pleasure in Pairs: Florentine Whipping for Tops and Bottoms
Do you want to create a meaningful connection using rhythm, location, and intensity control, then throw and feel a pair of whips? This fast-paced class is for throwers and receivers looking for more. Through demonstrations, intent, and practice with paper targets, you’ll learn control of accuracy and sensation. In addition to hands-on practice, we will discuss expectations, negotiating, making your own crackers, and safety.
Keywords
florentine, impact, whips
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Eye protection and two 3-4 ft whips or floggers. A few loaner whips will be available. |
Practical Chastity for People with Penises
“Lock me up and throw away the key!” So many of us fantasize about chastity, whether as an occasional spice or the main part of our relationships. In this class, we’ll talk about the gear options, the mental options, and chastity safety for people with penises. We’ll spend some time dispelling some myths and sharing how hot and fun this play can be.
Keywords
chastity, cage, denial, orgasm control
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Pressure Points for Creating Pleasure and Pain
In this demonstration and hands-on workshop, we’ll cover an eclectic variety of very specific places on the body that can be prodded and poked to cause exquisite torment, open up the body and mind for pleasure or arousal, or promote relaxation or grounding. We’ll explore some select pressure points, trigger points, acupressure points, nerves, and just plain old sensitive skin that can be used in kinky scenes during warm up, aftercare, or the main event. We’ll talk about intent and focus, and a variety of ways to apply pressure with hands, other body parts, and implements; but mostly we’ll be exploring spots all over the body from head to toe that cry out for naughty and wicked stimulation.
Keywords
pressure points, body manipulation
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Bring a pad to practice on the floor along with the demonstration. |
Red Cheeks: Spanking for Pleasure
Spanking can be a simple, sensual, and versatile intimate play technique that is enjoyable regardless of time or place. This lively, often humorous class covers positioning, the “sweet spot,” a variety of hand strokes, and much more. Using discussion, demos, and guided practice, you’ll be empowered to create everything from a gentle warm-up to a deeper intensity.
Keywords
sensation, spanking, impact
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Bring your hands, clothed cheeks, and questions! Solo? Entice a partner! |
Screaming in the Woods: How To Primal Hunt
Spring has sprung, the grass is green, so we shall go on a primal hunt! What the heck is a hunt? Typically, bottoms would be released into an area (think places where screams cannot be heard). They would then be “hunted” and captured by their tops, followed by pre-negotiated fun. It’s an adrenaline-inducing thrill and a great way to bond with a group of friends or your partner. During this class, Alain and TiedRed will discuss the elements of a primal hunt, share stories from previous chases, and leave you with the tools to host an event of your own. Curious newbies and experienced folks alike are welcome to join the party!
Keywords
primal, hunt, CNC, predator, prey, captivity, power exchange, community
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Sensation and Sensory Play
What do you do if your partner wants to play, does not like pain, and only wants minimal or non-existent marking? You turn to sensual kink - that type of play that is most often gentle, pleasant, and erotic. Sensation play, sensory deprivation, and sensory manipulation can entice a new partner to test the kink waters, and yet appeal to the long term kinksters who are looking for something different than a beat down scene. Join Ms. J for this discussion and demonstration on how to play with your bottom’s senses for a scene that leaves no visible marks, but impressions of enjoyment on their mind.
Keywords
gentle, sensual, blindfold, sensory manipulation
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Sensual Savagery
A delicate brush of the hand up the breast... slowly traversing up the neck... pausing slightly to caress the ear... then a formidable fist full of hair... the hushed whisper, “I’ma fuck you up… while your partner just watches and does nothing!” The slow retreat of the hand as though this interaction was a sensual and intimate exchange between you two. The juxtaposition of soft and sensual with the sadistic will leave your partner’s head swooning. Mixing massage with pressure points, the bump-and-grind for a tease of sexual intimacy on their leg with a knee to the genitalia, passionate kisses with a nip to the lip, a sweetly hug with the deprivation of air will leave them in a daze. This class is a delightful compilation of rough body play, pressure points, and sexual intimacy directly appealing to any connection and reaction junkies. Come play with Ms. J to discuss and see how to make your inner sensual sadist flourish.
Keywords
impact, pressure points, sensual, rough body play, intimacy
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Service with a Smile
In the same vein as the concept of Love Languages, I believe that each of us has a service language that speaks to us, either on the “D” or “s” side of the slash. In this class, we will identify the main types of service, go over examples of services that can be provided, and discuss tips for receiving service. We will also speak about what those who provide service get out of their service.
Keywords
service, D/s, M/s, power exchange
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None |
Sir! Yes Sir! Exploring Protocols in Power Exchange Dynamics
Everyone in the Dominant/submissive and Master/slave community seems to talk about protocol, but what is it exactly? Where does the line between “common sense” or “etiquette” stop, and protocol begin? We will look at what protocol is in a power exchange context, delve into terminology, and then examine formats of commonly recognized protocol systems and how these things develop in individual relationships and group dynamics. How does protocol change from public interactions to existing 24/7 in private dynamics? Let’s look into how to further develop our chosen dynamics, implement them consistently, and discuss the difference between enforcing protocol and punishment techniques. These concepts do NOT just apply to M/s and D/s dynamics – from active listening to self-sabotage, this class will touch on communication and lifestyle skills for all types of relationships.
Keywords
D/s, M/s, authority transfer, power dynamics, protocols, communication, relationships
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Small But Mighty: Microbondage for Fingers, Toes, and Faces
Tiny tidbits can have a big impact! This class explores how rope can be applied to smaller appendages like our fingers, toes, and facial features for predicaments, sensation play, sensory deprivation, and more. We will discuss negotiation tips, as well as risk mitigation for both solo and partnered adventures in microbondage. Note: This class may engage with salvia. Participants should determine their comfort for contact with saliva and rope being exposed to that fluid.
Keywords
rope, hand rope, face rope, sensory deprivation, drool
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For tying: Knowledge of a larks/head and reserve tension, as well as a single column tie, will be needed for this class. Tactile sensitivity is needed for moving small body parts and joints with care, and monitoring circulation indicators. For receiving rope: Knowledge of your body's range of motion and stability in small appendages. Determine and communicate your risk profile for circulation loss, joint manipulation, and sensory deprivation. |
Storytime For Littles
Reading a bedtime story is a wonderful way to enhance your dynamic and bring joy and relaxation to your little one. Learn how to select the right books for an engaging bedtime reading or even create your own stories.
Keywords
DD/lg, DD/lb, Caretaker/little, Big/little, stories
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None |
Substance and Play
We all hear on repeat not to mix substances with play because it is dangerous. This class discusses exactly why it is dangerous, what the risk profile looks like on common substances, and what ways we can mitigate risk and navigate consent if you do choose to mix the two. This is a safety, information, and risk mitigation oriented class. This class does not condone or encourage the mixture of intoxication and play, but rather evaluates the potential risks and dangers.
Keywords
consent, risk mitigation, negotiations, substance use
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None |
Taking the Office to the Maxxx: Stapling Outside the Box
Staples are a "staple" of the sharps community, but just how creative can you get with a little staple? This class is for those who want to get down with more than just a kerchunk and go. We'll talk about creative ways to integrate skin staples, staple bondage, non-skin staples into skin, electrified staples, impact over staples, fear and thrill, predicament, decorative pieces, and more into your staples. Whether a scene in and of themselves, or incorporated into other types of play, this can be a riveting way to spice up and terrorize your next scene.
Keywords
staples, skin, bondage, impact, predicament, psychology, creativity
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Familiarity with sharps safety, biohazard protocols, and a fundamental understanding of anatomy. |
Talk Dirty to Me: Using Words to Turn the Hotness to 11
When does sexy language add to the hotness of your relationships? When does negotiation become foreplay? All the time! In this workshop, we’ll use sexy sentence starters to practice telling the stories of what was hot in past encounters in order to create anticipation and amplify the hotness of our next encounter. We’ll also practice using desire-focused language to share ideas for future scenes, to bring fantasy into a scene, and to extend pleasure into aftercare.
Keywords
communication, D/s, dirty talk, negotiation, flirting, aftercare, intimacy, fantasy
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The BDSM and Fetish Pony
Mx Wilcox, author of The Human Pony, and Pony Tromper delve into the shadow side of pony play, exploring its use as an expression of BDSM and/or fetish. This workshop presents a variety of expressions within this well-loved archetype of human and beast, including Phyllis’ famed humiliation of Aristotle, Anne Rice’s control themes, and modern applications of bondage, discipline, D/s and sadomasochism, complete with all the gear. Even if you're new to pony play, this class will introduce you to an exciting and unique aspect of kink to explore.
Keywords
BDSM, fetish, bondage, discipline, D/s, sadomasochism, gearhead, history, pony
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The Bimbo Tie
The bimbo tie is a sexy ground tie that combines elements of exposure, enforced posture, and inescapable bondage. This tie offers unparalleled access and control, perfect for objectification, impact, and sexual play. In this tie-along class you will be taught the pattern, an optional crotch-rope variation, and adaptations.
Keywords
rope bondage, objectification, exposure, enforced posture, bimbofication
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This tie requires 3-4 hanks of 25-30 ft rope. Tops will need good tension, rope handling, and experience with patterned ties. Bottoms should be comfortable with maintaining an enforced backbend and communicating circulation loss. |
The Philosophy of Objectification
Sexual objectification's ubiquitous presence in the vanilla world is largely considered morally objectionable by many philosophers. Yet, kinksters often revel in exploring severe objectification in their consensual BDSM play. In this presentation, we'll look at the history of philosophical thinking on the subject, delve into how and why it can be a paradoxically liberating and expansive realm of exploration for caring and compassionate people, and peek into what the ramifications are for ethics in our kink communities.
Keywords
sexual objectification, ethics, philosophical perspectives
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None |
The Poke and the Pull: Playing with Porcupine Quills
This class will go over everything you need to know to play with porcupine quills! There will be discussion of how to ethically source porcupine quills, prep and clean them, and ways they can be used in play to create delightfully painful and intense sensations.
Keywords
porcupine quills, sharps, edgeplay
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The Sadistic Art of Eight Limbs
This class explores rough body play through the lens of Muay Thai techniques and principles. There are many different styles of rough body play, largely dependent upon the original martial arts style of the person doing it. Recent years have seen MMA, Krav Maga, and Jujitsu enter the realm of kink. Here I will teach you how to use your fists, elbows, knees, and feet/shins to cause intimate and intense pain, and leave the most lovely bruises.
Keywords
edgeplay, impact, rough body play
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None |
Trampling and Boot Play
Do you love the idea of stepping on people, want to be stepped on, or want to know more ways to incorporate boot-related kinks into your play? This class will cover techniques for standing and walking on someone, safer body positions for both bottoms and tops, and considerations for choosing footwear for a trampling scene. We'll also explore the wide variety of other kinds of play involving boots, such as kicking and other forms of boot-based rough body play, sensation play, CBT, and boot worship as part of a scene, including considerations for safety, hygiene, and aftercare.
Keywords
trampling, boot play, boot worship, sensation play
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None |
Violet Wands: From Sensual to Sadistic
Learn how to use the Violet Wand (Violet Ray) electrical stimulation toy. This low current, high voltage, high-frequency generator uses glass cathode tubes and other attachments to safely deliver an adjustable static electric charge to the body. This enables a wide range of sensations. Learn basic safety and operation, as well as the proper use of various attachments, or your bare hands, and other techniques. See how to use the wand with various shaped cathodes, even insertables, as well as with other items including metal pinwheels, banjo picks, chains, edged tools, silverware, a
metal cage, and even metallic clothing or mylar-woven ropes.
Keywords
violet wand, electrical, stimulation, electroplay
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None |
Welcome to the Dungeon: Your First (or Returning) KinkFest Dungeon Orientation
The KinkFest dungeon is the largest kinky play space in the world! This class will help you navigate the space with confidence and ensure a safe, enjoyable experience for everyone involved. This class will cover several key aspects to help you feel confident and prepared for the dungeon experience. We'll start with the dungeon layout, features, and furniture, guiding you through how to navigate the space and use its unique equipment, such as whip alley and suspension rigs. Next, we'll review safety protocols, dungeon rules, and resources to ensure you can enjoy the space while staying safe. Consent and communication will be a key focus, including an overview of BDSM consent practices, KinkFest’s no-contact boundary process, and the support provided by the KIND (Kinky Informed Neuro-spicy De-escalation) team. We'll also discuss dungeon etiquette, including the unspoken rules for interacting with others, respecting boundaries, and observing scenes. Finally, we’ll touch on navigating the broader conference, addressing features and answering attendee questions. By the end of this session, you'll be ready to step into the dungeon with confidence and ease!
Keywords
kinkfest dungeon, etiquette, rules, consent, safety
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What Are You Afraid Of?
Fear. Terror. Horror. These primal elements aren’t just the stuff for scary movies and pumpkin spice latte season. Maybe you’re easily spooked by jumpscares, or maybe you find twisted pleasure and humor in seeing others suffer while watching Fear Factor reruns. Whatever your relationship to fear is, SirHorror is here to terrorize and tantalize your brains with some spooky knowledge about fear play. Let’s get down to the bare bones and have a laugh or two!
Keywords
fear, SM, scene building
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What Harness, What Shape: Suspension Choices
Rope is easy to make hard, but hard to make it easy. What harness make certain shapes easier or more difficult? How do upline attachment choices change body orientation and sustainability? We will categorize rope shapes and discuss the advantages and disadvantages of harnesses according to shape. This class includes lecture, demo, a fast warm up for tops and bottoms, and a brief opportunity to floor tie and try a couple of body position drills. Bottoms and tops are welcome and encouraged to attend. Observers also welcome.
Keywords
rope, suspension, harness
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To participate, bring a mat, comfy clothes, and your rope kit. The brief body position drills have partnered or solo options; tyers should be able to independently tie a single column. |
Whipology: How to Buy, Throw, and Feel the Whip
What is a "scene whip", where do you buy it, and how do use and feel it? Let’s build a solid foundation for your journey, whether you're a top or bottom. In this class, you'll learn how to find the perfect whip for your needs, including tips on evaluating options, selecting the right style, and understanding current costs. Through demos and practice, you’ll learn to throw and/or fine-tune your whip. In addition to hands-on learning, we will discuss safety, negotiating, and communicating in your scene.
Keywords
impact, whips, singletail
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Bring eye protection and a 3-4 ft whip. Whips will also be available to borrow. |